The Only Person That Should Wear Your Ring Is The One Person That Would Never;

1. Ask you to remain silent and look the other way while they hurt another.

2. Jeopardize your future by taking risks that could potentially ruin your finances or reputation. 

3. Teach your children that hurting others is okay because God loves them more. God didn’t ask you to keep your family together at the expense of doing evil to others.

4. Uses religious guilt to control you, while they are doing unreligious things. 

5. Doesn’t believe their actions have long lasting repercussions that could affect other people negatively.

6. Reminds you of your faults, but justifies their own.

7. Uses the kids to manipulate you into believing you are nothing. As if to suggest, you couldn’t leave the relationship and establish a better Christian marriage with someone that doesn’t do these things. Thus, making you believe God hates all the divorced people and will abandon you by not bringing someone better to your life, after you decide to leave. As if!

8. They humiliate you online and in their inner circle. They let their friends, family and world know your transgressions. 

9. They tell you no marriage is perfect and you are not trying, yet they are the one that has stirred up more drama through their insecurities. 

10. They say they are sorry, but they don’t show proof through restoring what they have done. 

11. They don’t make you a better person because you are miserable. They have only made you a victim or a bitter survivor because of their need for control over you.

12. Their version of success comes at the cost of stepping on others.

13. They make your marriage a public event, in order for you to prove your love online for them.

14. They lie, but their lies are often justified.

15. You constantly have to start over and over and over with them, as if a connection could be grown and love restored through a honeymoon phase, or constant parental supervision of one another’s down falls. 

16. They tell you that they don’t care about anyone other than who they love. However, their actions don’t show they love you, rather their love has become bitter insecurity disguised in statements such as, “Look what I did for us. This is how much I care.” 

17. They tell you who you can interact with and who you can’t.

18. They believe the outside world is to blame for their unhappiness. 

19. They brought you to a point of improvement, but no longer have your respect. 

20. They don’t make you feel anything, but regret. You know in your heart you settled.


Fear And Love

 There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.


As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY”.
As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody if I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it “RESPECT”.
As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it “MATURITY”.
As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it “SELF-CONFIDENCE”.
As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it “SIMPLICITY”.
As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is “LOVE OF ONESELF”.
As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is “MODESTY”.
As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where everything is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it “FULFILLMENT”.
As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection “WISDOM OF THE HEART”.
We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know “THAT IS LIFE”!


Justice For Rashida Faridah|Day No To Domestic Violence😭😭


The first message I got from Rashida Fridah said “Are you on your way? I can’t seem to open the lock, even with the right code”. We had a shift together at Retro Nørrebro, a charity café around the corner from Assistens Cemetery in Northern Copenhagen. We’d never worked together before, and had only met at social events in passing. Both of us were new to the café but as it had so many international volunteers and members of staff it was impossible to know everyone. It was the start of a long and cold Danish winter, and the locks on the doors were frozen. This was Fridah’s first winter in Copenhagen, and she was bundled up with scarves and gloves, trying to force open a café door in an otherwise deserted street.
The second message I got from her was less than a month later. It said “Do you…

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Sinkhole Corvettes.
Article By David Gakumo Migwi

The National Corvette Museum in Bowling Green, KY experienced a nasty surprise just before 6AM this morning when a sinkhole approximately 40 feet wide and 30 feet deep opened up and swallowed eight rare and prestigious American sports cars. When the ground opened, luckily, the museum was still closed for the night, and nobody was injured, but the list of Corvettes lost is certainly disheartening. The sinkhole set off an alarm within the museum, and the local fire department was notified. Upon arrival, they found a large hole in the floor of the Sky Dome “hall of fame” section of the museum, with a number of special cars resting subterranean.

While some of the cars appear salvageable, certainly a few will be reduced to no more than scrap. The damaged cars include two cars currently on loan from General Motors; a 1993 ZR-1 Spyder, and a 2009 ZR1 “Blue Devil”, as well as six vehicles owned by the museum itself; a 1962 Black Corvette, a 1984 PPG Pace Car, the 1 Millionth Corvette, the 1.5 Millionth Corvette, a Ruby Red 40th Anniversary Car, and a Mallett Hammer C5 Z06.  Some of these cars, as you can tell, are one of a kind, and can never be replaced.

Some Of The Corvettes In Before And After Sinkhole Massacre. 1984 PPG Pace Car,1993 ZR-1 Spyder,1.5 Millionth Corvette (2009),2001 “Mallett Hammer” ZO6

1993 Chevrolet Corvette 40th Anniversary, colour Ruby Red Which was one of the 6,749 in the production line of this special edition were made.

40th Anniversary Corvette

1993 ZR-1 Spyder Was on loan from the museum Of GM at the time of the sinkhole tragedy.The car featured number of unique features including;hood,front quarter panel vents,lowered side glass and a lower windshield.In the background is a 1962 Tuxedo Black Corvette and one of a kind 1984 PPG Pace Car.

ZR-1 Spyder After Damage

The 1.5 Millionth Corvette,year 2009 make l,suffered some of the worst damage in the sinkhole.

1.5 Millionth Corvette After Damage

•1993 ZR-1 Spyder (on loan)

Inside Bowling Green Showroom.This One Was On Loan From GM
After Damage From Sinkhole
Evacuation Continues
ZR-1 Spyder,Manual 6 Speed Gearbox,This one Was A Killa Machine.
On Mission To Recover The ZR-1 Spyder
Rescue Mission 101
Sunk In The Sinkhole
Totally Damaged
Recovering The ZR-1 Spyder
On A Trolley Inside Bowling Green

•2009 ZR1 “Blue Devil” prototype (on loan)

After Damage,Now Sitting Inside Bowling Green
March 3rd 2014,Blue Devil Was The First Car To Be Recovered From The Sinkhole, It Had Minimal Damage.
You Could Think It’s On Display But Nope,Its On Rescue Mode.
Inside The Showroom,Clean,Stunting And Amazing Car.
ZR1 Blue Devil Was The First One To Be Rescued,On The Left Is 1962 Corvette.
Rescue Mission On Going
During Display, #ChevroletProwess
Isn’t This Just An Amazing Piece Of Joy?
ZR1 Corvette,Behind Is 1993 40th Anniversary Corvette
After Successfully Rescuing The First Corvette.
2009 “Blue Devil” Corvette Prototype.

•1962 Corvette

2nd Car To Be Removed From Sinkhole.1962 Corvette.
’62 Corvette Just Inside The Sinkhole.
This Was Another Corvette Which Had Minimal Damage On It.
1962 Corvette On Display Mode After Being Removed From Sinkhole.

•1984 PPG Pace Car

One Of The Most Rear Corvettes.
Rear Side Of The 1984 PPG Pace Car
Just From The Sinkhole.
Rescue Mode 101
Still On Rescue Mode.
After It Has Been Removed From The Sinkhole.
Inside The Bowling Green Showroom.Notice The Inversed Hood Scoop?
Killa Corvette 🙂
Notice The Damage? All The Rear Side Gone.
Totally Wrecked.
Pace Car Sinkhole Extraction.
1984 PPG Pace Car, Masterpiece Of It’s Own Kind

•1992 1 millionth Corvette

By 1992 Corvettes Had Hit 1Million. Quite A Remarkable Journey.
1992,Car On Display Is Chevrolet Corvette, The 1 Millionth Car.
1 Millionth Corvette Lying In The Sinkhole.
Damage On The 1 Millionth Corvette
Vette Being Lifted.
On Horizontal Display.
Same Car,Different Years Of Make.
Just After A Successful Rescue.

•1993 40th Anniversary Corvette

1993 Ruby Red 40th Anniversary Corvette.
From The Sinkhole.
Display Without Any Thing Done On It After Sinkhole Recovery.
The Rear Side.
Scratches On The Corvette
Ruby Red On The 40th Anniversary Corvette.
No Serious Damage Compared To The Mallett Hammer And the 1.5 Millionth Corvette.

•2001 “Mallett Hammer” Z06

2001 Mallett Hammer Corvette. This Is Just A Wow Piece.
Mallett Hammer Was The Last Corvette To Be Rescued,It Also Suffered The Worst Damage. April 9 2014. Barely 37 Days After The Blue Devil Was Removed From The Same Sinkhole.
Mallett Hammer Was Buried Deep Inside The Soil.
You Can Clearly See The Damage How it impacted On The Mallett Hammer Corvette.
Some Of The Remains From The Car Body. (Mallett Corvette)
Mallett Corvette Being Pulled Out Of The Sinkhole.
Inside Bowling Green ShowRoom.

•2009 1.5 millionth Corvette.

Another Car That Suffered Damage Was This One,1.5 Million Corvette.
On Display, Behind Is The Counterpart,Mallett Corvette.
April 3rd 2014
This Was The Second Last Car To Be Removed.One Month After The First Corvette (Blue Devil) Was Removed From The Same Sinkhole.
On Display Inside Bowling Green Showroom.

On March 3, 2014, the 2009 Blue Devil was the first car recovered and despite significant damage was started and driven out of the Sky dome. The 1.5 millionth Corvette and Mallet Corvette were the last cars pulled from the sinkhole, on April 3 and April 9, respectively – after workers were initially unable to find them amid the collapsed earth.

All Photos Are Credit To The Owners.

The Journey Of Life

For everything in this journey of life we are on, there is a right wing and a left wing: for the wing of love there is anger; for the wing of destiny there is fear; for the wing of pain there is healing; for the wing of hurt there is forgiveness; for the wing of pride there is humility; for the wing of giving there is taking; for the wing of tears there is joy; for the wing of rejection there is acceptance; for the wing of judgment there is grace; for the wing of honour there is shame; for the wing of letting go there is the wing of keeping. We can only fly with two wings and two wings can only stay in the air if there is a balance. Two beautiful wings is perfection. There is a generation of people who idealize perfection as the existence of only one of these wings every time. But I see that a bird with one wing is imperfect. An angel with one wing is imperfect. A butterfly with one wing is dead. So this generation of people strive to always cut off the other wing in the hopes of embodying their ideal of perfection, and in doing so, have created a crippled race.


There is a noticeable symphony being played around the world today. That symphony speaks of the independent, unorthodox, proud women. Yes, it is the International Women’s Day! It is the day to celebrate the women in your life.

In my life I have never believed in a particular day to celebrate women though, but a date is necessary rather customary to remind you of their contributions in your life lest you forget it.

So here’s wishing all those strong women who competed in a man’s world, defeating them and breaking the taboos to earn the place which was rightfully theirs from the start but usurped in the past by manly morals and ego, a very- HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY!